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We've all heard
the cliché, "A picture is worth a thousand words." Well how much
are a million pictures, that are moving, worth to you?
That's what a video documentary of your wedding is, a Custom Made Movie
of events leading up to and including your wedding day. Moving pictures
such as these are best trusted to a trained professional. When shopping
for a videographer, there are several guidelines you should follow. It
is recommended you begin your search early in your wedding planning and
that you sign a contract with your chosen videographer at least four
to six months before your wedding date and up to a year in advance for
peak times.
Bridal
Fashion Store Shopping Tips
Since this is certainly
not an average shopping trip, here are a few suggestions which will help
make it a fun experience.
- Shop
well in advance of the wedding day. Alterations are usually
necessary, and if the store has to special-order your gown (which
often is the case), normal delivery is eight to sixteen weeks,
but can take even longer.
- Do not
invite friends to accompany you since each will have her own preferences. It
would certainly be appropriate for your mother or a close friend
to help with the selection.
- Select
two or three, try them on, then make a decision.
Be sure to consider how you will wear your hair, make-up, and most
of all, how "he" likes to see you. Choose a gown that makes the
most of your figure. Princess or A-line styles are slimming and
create the illusion of height. A full skirt hides heavy legs and
hips. Dropped waist styles flatter most figure types. A decorative
bodice highlights the upper body, while a simpler style minimizes
a heavy bust. There are many fabrics and shades to choose from.
Find the textures and hues that flatter your complexion.
- Choose
a veil that is appropriate to the style of your wedding.
Remember, your back gets lots of attention during the ceremony
- your dress, veil and train should look elegant from that angle.
- Be prepared
to make at least a fifty percent deposit on your gown. Another
reason for careful selection is that most fine stores consider
bridal apparel as "intimate;" therefore, refunds and exchanges
are generally not allowed. This is for your protection as well
as the store's.
- When
choosing your gown, keep in mind that your choice sets the tone
for the degree of formality for the entire wedding, particularly
the selection of bridesmaids gowns, the groom's and usher's attire,
as well as that of the mothers. For formal weddings, the
bride wears a long gown with train and veil of her choice. The
train is usually either shorter or eliminated for the small or
informal wedding.
- Tradition
is "something old, something new, something borrowed, something
blue, and a lucky sixpence for your shoe." Wearing your
mother's or grandmother's petticoat, several blue garters (saving
one to pass on to your children), or carrying a handkerchief, made
with love by a friend or relative, heirloom jewelry, or a special
piece that someday may become an heirloom can also create special
memories.
Choosing
Your Attendent's Dress
Etiquette
decrees that you select elegant floor-length gowns for your attendants
if you are having a formal wedding. At other times, your bridesmaids
can wear a variety of lengths though the dresses should not be longer
than that of the bride's.
Beyond length recommendations,
you are free to choose whatever type dress that appeals to your fashion
flair. Color is usually the beginning point because your bridesmaids'
dresses determine the color scheme. Pastels or florals - even a combination
of the two - are spring and summertime favorites, while jewel tones
are favorite wintertime choices. In recent years, black and white has
been a favorite combination for both seasons.
While most brides
choose for all attendants to dress alike, some have the maid of honor
in a coordinating shade. A new trend is to choose a color scheme and
allow each attendant to pick her own dress in that particular color.
Should you choose to do this, restrictions should be placed regarding
length of the skirt, sleeves, etc.
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